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OKCupid's data shows that men receive replies to about 20-50% of their online dating messages, depending on their attractiveness — and I'm going to go out on a limb and say most would like to move that number up to 100%.
While sometimes it's your profile that makes women think twice, I can also attest that your message itself can kill your chances of a response.
And please don't ask us multiple choice questions about how hard we’ll work to look sexy for you..” I’m not an encyclopedia.
If you haven’t heard of someone’s profession or interests, that's what Google is for — because explaining your life's work to someone in a Tinder message can be really exhausting. If we haven't responded, it's because we don't want to.
But pickup lines are designed to make women feel this way — because the user always has a specific goal in mind, and he's not achieving it by genuine means.
You've heard this advice about your cover letters, and it applies here too: Please don't write a message generic enough that it could have been copied and pasted.
It leaves us asking ourselves either “Did he read my profile?
As a rule of thumb, if we have to use Wikipedia to answer your questions, you've gone too far.
We might be too tired or busy to answer even if we're interested.