Dating someone older by 9 years
(It will never be exactly the same for two different people.) Assess Your Proclivity for Indulgences While many behaviors in the extreme form represent a problem or even an addiction, some of those same behaviors can be harmless if not taken to the extreme.Consider a list of activities that fall on the hedonistic end of the behavioral spectrum: drinking alcohol, gambling, shopping, traveling, and spending, for example.Think about friends, acquaintances, work colleagues, and even extended family members with whom you socialize.Now, insert a significantly older partner in that picture. Rather than asking him or her such questions directly, lay low and gather your information over time. If you answer these questions honestly, you’ll have gobs of good information as you try to determine whether a long-term relationship with the older individual could work well.
You can't teach an old dog not to eat a bag of potato chips right before bed, as they say.12. This isn't our first time at the vagina rodeo, if you know what I mean. We've picked up a lot of habits (some bad and some good), but you're not about to change them. However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him. Maybe just one shot of whiskey instead of seven of vodka. All right, so no one knows what they want, but we've got a job, if not a career, and some money saved up, because we already did that thing where you spend all your money and then have no money.7. Don't try and get us to do acid again just because you want to see if we can recreate the time we went to Bonnaroo 10 years ago.